Sleep Training 101; 0-3 Months
So you spend 40 weeks of your life growing a tiny human, about 20 (give or take – hopefully take for your sake!) hours in labor, 2-3 days recovering in the hospital with countless visitors and being woken up what feels like every 5 seconds for meds and vitals, and then they send ya home and tell ya to “rest”. Let’s laugh together, ladies. If you are in this stage right now I have two things to say to you :
1. It is not forever. I know it feels like forever, but it is not.
2. You will sleep again, I promise.
I know if you’re reading this you’re probably just desperate for these tips and tricks so let’s just get right into it!
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Okay, so first things first. Your newborn is not going to completely sleep through the night. They need to get up and eat. This is normal. There is no magical method to make them not do this. BUT you CAN use my method to help them sleep in longer stretches. My baby would do 3-4 hour stretches at night on average. She would more-so do a 5-6 hour stretch, wake up, eat, and then do another 3-4 hour stretch.
New Mamas : How does 6 hours of uninterrupted sleep sound?! Woot Woot!
I cannot guarantee this works for absolutely everybody, but it did work for us, as well as some friends we have suggested it to. I also am not going to lie and say she’s a perfect sleeper every night. She definitely has had her gassy or colic-y nights, But all babies do! I found that if I can do something that works 90% of the time for us, that the other 10% is not so unbearable.
THIS IS CRUCIAL. I had a “friend” one time look at me like I was a lunatic and say “Why do you already have her on a schedule?” with a nice little eye roll to follow. Routine is SO IMPORTANT. At every stage of their lives! It helps them THRIVE! Our routine went as such :
7 PM – Bath time
7:45/8 PM – Story time
8/8:15 PM – Nursing (or bottle)
8:30/9 PM – SLEEP.
Now the clothing is tricky. Did you know that heavy clothing can increase the risk of SIDS? How you dress them for bedtime is REALLY important for what’s to come in the next few steps. We found that the onesies, that are long sleeve, and have the flip over mittens on the end work best. See what I’m talking about here. After we got her all dressed, we would read her a quick story book, and I would nurse her in the rocking chair in the nursery. A bonus tip : make sure you are spending plenty of time in the nursery! It’s very important to get them comfortable and familiarized with their room, if you ever plan on them sleeping in there. If you don’t plan on that, or that isn’t an option, I just suggest at least nursing or feeding in the same spot every night. Usually she would get very sleepy, but not quite asleep, after eating. Now it’s time for the real key to the equation.
… but wait, there’s more!
3. Double Swaddling
Make sure you have the correct products at hand, because The Swaddle Me is another necessity!! Not only are they going to fight being swaddled, they still have their Moro reflex, which is their “startle” reflex. This will wake them up out of a dead sleep! Double swaddling them is nothing new, though! They also do this at most hospitals as well! The double swaddle method helps them feel secure and supported, similar to the womb. and although they will fight it at first, a couple of rocks and bounces later, they will be passed out!
Don’t sleep on this method!!! It may not work instantly on night one, but NOTHING does!! (except my baby acne cure)
Hang in there, mama! Your baby is going to be sleeping in no time!
As always, please feel free to reach out to me if any of this seems confusing or you need any extra help! Mama’s gotta stick together!
Until next time!